When self-reliance becomes survival, quiet patterns start to take root.
Avery White notes that there's a particular kind of strength that comes from having only yourself to count on, but underneath that polished surface lives something else entirely—a collection of habits formed in isolation, each one a small tragedy disguised as independence.
It works, until one day you realize you've become so good at not needing people that you've forgotten how to let them in, even when they're genuinely trying to help.
These habits develop after years of disappointments, leading to a life of isolation and self-sufficiency.
Author's summary: Self-reliance can be a heartbreaking habit.